Aggressive Communication Style In Relationships

This is what is referred to as communication style. In other words, communication style refers to the unique way in which individuals tend to exchange information with others. Understanding each of these styles of communication is an important aspect of effective communication both in its general sense and in our relationships. Later on, we will consider how each of these styles of communication applies to couples. Passive communication style is a style of communication in which the passive communicator tends to avoid expressing their feelings, needs, or opinions. Often, a passive communicator behaves indifferently, ignoring their rights and needs, and allowing others to express themselves. They do not directly respond to situations that could result in anger. I just want to keep the peace. This is another style of communication in which the assertive communicator firmly and clearly states their feelings, ideas, opinions, rights, and needs while respecting and considering the rights and needs of others. By now, you would have seen that the assertive communication style is the opposite of the passive communication style, right? I do respect the rights and opinions of others. I quite comprehend your point of view, but I have to disagree with you on that. Being assertive helps you to express yourself in the most effective manner and stand up for what you think is right, while still not ignoring the rights and beliefs of others.

Prisoner Of Life

You don’t need to be told when someone speaks to you in an aggressive manner, do you? It is often obvious when someone speaks in an aggressive way because most times, you will feel it. An aggressive communicator speaks in a loud voice. The tone of the voice will sound demanding/commanding and controlling and tends to violate the rights of other people. That is fine with me, but do not become surprised if someone else gets hurt. You don’t have to worry, I will clean up the mess you have created, after all, that is what I always get to do. Let’s do a quick recap, shall we? We went ahead to examine the factors that could interfere in your communication and make your communication ineffective, and then we carefully explored the different styles of communication that are used by different communicators. So, you have just learned about communication in its general sense. Next, we are going to consider communication and relationship. In other words, we shall now discuss communication as it relates to and affects relationships, especially love relationships. Then, you can tell it isn’t pretty. Love is paradise and when you eventually find someone that you are compatible with, there are few greater joys in life than that. But what happens when a relationship is experiencing a problem or problems? Perhaps, you both have been married and living together for a long time.

Down All the Days

But now, your relationship seems to be growing from one crisis into another. What can you do to save your relationship? All relationships have ups and downs. Communication is important in any relationship, including romantic relationships. Well, let us now critically examine the importance of communication in a relationship. What role does communication really play in your relationship? Before we discuss the role of communication in relationships, it would be better to first consider why some people would not want to communicate or speak out. It involves understanding your partner’s view. Something has been bothering Jane for a long time, she looks disturbed. Yes, she wants to talk about it with Sam, but each time Sam asks Jane what the problem is, Jane tries to dodge the question by saying, nothing is wrong dear. In the example above, what do you think is preventing Jane from communicating with Sam about her problem? Yes, your guess is right! She is probably concerned about the outcome of the communication. Jane is not alone in this situation. There are other people who are in the same situation as Jane. Are you one of them? Alas, help is coming your way! Why do people who claim to love each other stop communication? One of the foremost reasons for this act is fear of the outcome.

Flip The Switch

Most people who refuse to communicate with their spouse are a bit concerned they would say something that could upset their spouse. They fear that talking about an issue of concern that is likely affecting their relationship would only make things worse. Some would not speak out for fear of rejection. Resentment can hold one back from communicating with their partner. This often occurs when one of the partners is resentful over what the other partner had done. Partners who are in a relationship may stop communicating if their discussions always turn into arguments. What about when there is a lack of trust and confidence? Yes, lack of trust and confidence can hinder effective communication between two partners. Mistrust and doubt can result in one partner looking at the other partner with suspicion so that they make no effort to discuss their misunderstandings with each other. So, instead of discussing with their partner, they go looking for solace in a third partner, confiding in the partner instead of confiding in their married partners. Perhaps, you find yourself in one of these situations. If you do, bear in mind that communication can either make your relationship or help you break it. So ask yourself, do you still value this relationship? Do you still want to remain in this relationship? Do you yearn to bring back the lost glory? If yes, then walk with me as we examine what effective communication can do for you in your relationship. Everything we do in life revolves around communication. Relationships also involve communication in its every stage. A relationship cannot survive without communication. When two people are joined by marriage to become a couple, they become one body that is united in purpose. Love is all about communication. Communication is the only way through which you can get to know about the person that you are interested in.