Drift Away From The Other Person Into Your Imagination

Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after. Regarding attraction, however, the only aspect of Jung’s Anima feminine archetype that is important to us is the empathetic communicator, which I call the Peacemaker. A man who has a strong connection with his Peacemaker will have lots of female friends. He is the man women open up to, the man they go to when they have problems, the man that understands them. The Peacemaker walks among women as a friend and ally. He is on their side. This gives the Peacemaker an incredible amount of power. Women don’t see him as a threat, so he can surround himself with women in a way that the other archetypes could never do. The Peacemaker achieves this by listening to women intently, without judgement, without any ulterior motive. Unlike the other archetypes, the Peacemaker in conversation isn’t trying to achieve a result. He isn’t trying to get to a point. He isn’t attempting to reduce conversations down to the facts.

Everything Has A Price To Pay

It wouldn’t be difficult to convince you why this empathic archetype is so important. It is a powerful archetype for attraction and provides a solid foundation on which all of the other masculine archetypes can work. On my journey, I experimented with a somewhat time intensive, advanced attraction strategy that one of the internet born pickup artists pioneered. I remember when I lived in London there was this little skinny Asian guy that used to host parties at exclusive nightclubs. I went partying with him once, and I just didn’t understand what his deal was. So what was his deal? Why did so many women love being around him? It was precisely because he wasn’t trying to sleep with his girlfriends that gave him his allure. Women loved him like a gay best friend. They felt safe around him, so they invited their friends to join in on the fun too. Women love Peacemakers because they provide an access point into the world of men, but a safe one that won’t take advantage of them. I know many powerful Peacemakers who are surrounded by women all the time and inevitably get laid just because some of those women get horny, and trust the Peacemaker’s discretion. Peacemakers can talk to women in a way the other archetypes can’t. Peacemakers are masters of what I call Conversation Flow, which is where you ask open ended questions instead of closed ones, where you add to the conversation and build it instead of constantly demanding answers from her.

Sight For Sore Eyes

Because of this skill, the Peacemaker can have long, deep, multilayered conversations with women, getting them to open up in a way they’re not used to. With a Peacemaker women feel seen, they feel understood, and that is a highly attractive thing that all women crave. Women love him, just not in that way. Can you imagine the frustration at being surrounded by attractive women, but lacking the character traits that they are attracted to? It would be like being a kid in a candy store but the candy is off limits. Relying on luck isn’t my idea of an effective attraction strategy, but it’s the only strategy the Peacemaker has because he isn’t willing to risk pushing women away with the energies of the other archetypes. Overcoming any archetype’s weakness involves moving over to the opposite masculine archetype whose strength is the same as the weakness they wish to overcome. What imprisons the Peacemaker firmly in the friend zone is his fear of losing the respect, friendship, attention and, ultimately, the validation of the women in his life. This fear will lead to a lifetime of frustration as he watches the women he secretly desires date the assholes, jerks and bad boys, only to come back to him complaining, asking him why all men can’t be more like him. A man who hasn’t experienced the power of the Peacemaker to connect with women will have his own challenges ahead of him, but in many ways, he will be in a much better position to start learning the art of attraction since he will have less to lose. The Peacemakers of the world are stuck, requiring the greatest of courage to break free from their bondage. People talk, listen completely. Don’t be thinking what you’re going to say.

As If You Read My Mind

Not being able to empathise with others is usually a result of being detached from life. Not being fully there with that person, and experiencing them in their fullest. They’re talking, but you’re not really listening. For Tricksters wishing to develop the Peacemaker within, the first thing you need to do is watch out for moments in your life when you recoil away from intimacy and connection by deflecting it with humour. You may be surprised with how often you do this. Magicians need to actually socialise! And when you do, you need to become aware of all the times your focus and attention starts to drift away from the other person into your imagination. Magicians need to learn to turn off their mind, stop thinking about their secret projects they’re working on, and really try to be here in this moment with the person they’re talking to. I remember teaching a client in Chicago, and his interactions would always go exactly the same way. He would open, have a two minute interaction, then hit a psychological wall. I ran out of things to say. When I walked him through the interaction again, repeating what she had said and demonstrated all the possible things he could have said, I was always met with the same kind of oh of course! reactions. It all seems so obvious after the fact. But in the heat of the moment when the pressure is on, our minds just seize up and sabotage us. It honestly doesn’t matter what you say. Then you just keep repeating the process. Listen to what she says, then respond with a statement about it.