Women Love You For Your Ability To Listen To Them

What most men don’t realise is that, despite anything you may have heard, women want to chase a man. The role of the Magician in a tribe is to support the survival and development of all of its members. The Magician’s mind, then, is at the service of the Wildman, making you the only attractive personality type that can give full agency and expression to the Wildman. The answer is cunning and strategy. The Magician heeds the call of the Wildman, and steps in to devise the most extravagant, complex and sophisticated plans to navigate the minefield of courtship and seduction. When interacting with women, you, through your Magician always have an end goal in mind. Where the Magician tends to communicate from a distance, far up in the Ivory Tower of his mind, making it hard to connect to women, the Wildman keeps the Magician grounded in the body. This connection means when you talk with women your voice has a deeper vibration than other Magicians. This can unfold as the grand seduction of the woman of your dreams, or it could result in alternative social organisations. It is not uncommon, for example, to find Strategist men in the position of tango dance instructor, yoga teacher, social group leader or some other kind of position where they are in contact with lots of women. They have an interest in the subjects in question, but their being surrounded by women is no accident. The Peacemaker is the chameleon of the masculine archetypes, in a state of perpetual reaction to other people, shapeshifting to the whims and needs of people around him, much like how water has no form until it is poured into a container.

Left In The Dark

Put the Peacemaker in any situation, with any woman, and he will quickly learn how to behave in a way that is the most pleasing. The Peacemaker is the best listener of all the archetypes and can quickly empathise and understand others points of view, allowing him to respond in ways that make people feel truly heard. Conversation flows effortlessly from topic to topic, without any worry of running out of things to say, because Peacemakers are riding the wave of empathy and curiosity in the present moment, focused entirely on the other person. Though the Peacemaker’s empathy for others and constant focus on making no enemies means all like him, few often love him. All sharp edges are filed, all rough areas are smoothed, any unusual, unique contours, removed. Like buckets of water poured into the same bath, Peacemakers in the same room blend together like an ant colony with a single hive mind. The Peacemaker is the most common archetype found in modern men, but this archetype is powerless without a Closed archetype to give the Peacemaker something solid on which to base his identity, which is why most men struggle to attract women. The Trickster provides your Peacemaker with the balance it needs to be effective with women. On the opposite side of the Red Knight Attraction model, the mischievous Trickster couldn’t be more different. Peacemakers listen to women so they can empathise with them and respond in the most appropriate way. Tricksters, on the other hand, see words not as tools for understanding and empathy, but as toys, playthings, and weapons to be used. The Trickster seeks not to harmonise, connect and go with the flow, like the Peacemaker, but to disconnect, to rock the boat, to disrupt the flow.

See Your Sunshine

The Trickster, ultimately, is an arbiter of truth. The Trickster’s gift is in seeing through the facade, behind the masks, past the curtain. He see’s the grand humour in everything and is committed to highlighting that truth whenever he can using his tricks, deception, and role play. This unique perspective comes from the Tricksters detachment from the ebb and flow of the real world, living on the outside, looking in. This disconnection allows him the kind of higher awareness that gives him his sharp tongue, his witty remarks and comedic timing. Because Tricksters aren’t caught up in the crowd and bound to the rules of social, etiquette, and expected behaviour, he stands out in any crowd. Where others stick to the allotted grooves, Tricksters are always offroad. They are the rebels, the outcasts, the deviants of the world, priding themselves on being the black sheep. Women love the Trickster because he can transport her with his stories and roleplay from the boring and mundane to the fun and exciting. Not only are Tricksters not trying to manipulate women into liking them, they are often found pushing women away with their teases and games, just because it’s enjoyable to watch a woman come chasing back after him. We only value what we work for and invest our energy into, and a man that provides no challenge for her, and actively pursues her, giving her no space to invest and chase herself, is a man that she loses interest in fast. The primary limitation of the Trickster, however, is that he cannot connect with women in any real way, due to his detachment and lack of genuine empathy.

All Or Nothing

When these two contrasting masculine archetypes are brought together under a single roof, both of their weaknesses are compensated for by each other, resulting in an incredibly attractive, social man. You relate to women, empathise with them, but then take what she has told you and craft it into the perfect tease, the ideal playful accusation, the most enjoyable role play. You can work the room of any party, connect when you need to connect and tease when you need to tease. You are not limited to selfless empathy, nor trapped in the cycle of witty remarks and theatre. Women love you for your ability to listen to them and respond in a real way, but at any moment play with them, tease them, roleplay with them and take them on a fun journey away from the grey of their mundane lives. I’ve trained artists.